1. Don’t be ignorant. Always be informed about sexual matters. This is oftentimes the downfall of male virgins. Know your stuff(heh, pun intended). 2. Be a REAL man. Follow the virtues, both old and new, of what manhood is characterized by. Work on those virtues as much as you can. 3. APPRECIATE women(but don’t be feminized). Understand that they exist for you gender-wise. You can do this without the porn. I recommend clothed models, regular art, or just observing the women in your real-life setting. Sorry if this was a long post. I just wanted to share my own perspective. I hope it was worth something. Fare thee well!

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To the author and the posters, you guys are such lost cause. If life is all about getting laid , you guys really have issues. As one who lost it later than usual, I can say that involuntary virginity is a very negative aspect in one’s life. It’s not only painful, but most damaging to one’s self-confidence. Now, I’m not addressing these remarks to the voluntarily celibate. If you’re turning down hot chicks who proposition you out of a strong ethical or religious commitment, that’s great. Just be aware that the involuntarily celibate outnumber you 10 to 1.

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I’ve not read all the posts, but I think I probably lost my virginity at a later age than anyone else on here – 47. I thought it would never happen until I discovered internet dating. After a few false starts, I met someone who had also been a late life virgin – when she was in her 30′s, so I felt quite comfortable telling her – don’t think I would have liked to have bluffed my way through my first time. We’re not together now, but I’m eternally grateful to her.

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The thought of all this can be terrifying to a “nice guy,’ but if you want to get laid, you’ve got to just go for it. My tips: 1. “Just be yourself?” No, that’s what got you to age 25/30/35 or beyond without getting laid. 2. Read all the PUA stuff on the web. There’s some good advice to be found there, much better than anything that was available 15 years ago. 3. That really hot chick in biology class? She’s not the one you’re going to start with. First, you’ve already put her on a pedestal; second, you’re going to be much more inhibited around someone you see on a daily basis, or has a common circle of friends. No, you’re going to set your sights farther afield, bar girls, friends of friends, or the 5 from biology class who cozies up to you in lab. She’s sending a signal of receptiveness that you’re too dense to get. Next time it happens, invite her up to your apartment to “listen to records” (I know I’m dating myself now). Hint for you virgins: that 5 will look like a 7 or 8 when you’re in flagrante. 4. Women aren’t your friends. They are either former sex partners, current sex partners, potential sex partners, friends or relatives of potential sex partners, or lesbians. It’s obvious to say don’t put yourself in the friend zone, but you also need to remember that most guys who are in there, put themselves there. 5. Don’t worry too much about your looks; confidence and a good line of shit will get you farther. Still, you don’t want to push this principle past the breaking point, so do some time in the gym. 6. Don’t masturbate excessively. 7. Don’t feel embarrassed about escalating the level of physical contact. When you’re on a date, she expects you to make a move. IMHO, the toughest thing is the kiss. If she doesn’t want it, she’s not going to bite you, she’ll just turn away. As for going farther, the best advice I read was to brush or rub gently against her clothing over the desired area. If she likes it, that’s your signal to escalate. If she doesn’t, she’s (again) not going to bite you; likely, she’ll just move your hand gently away. Act cool, like it’s no big deal-perhaps you can close her later in the night, or on a the next date. You’ll probably have a good idea if she’s really not interested in you “like that,” or if you’re just moving a bit fast.

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